Empower Women to Embrace Their Sexuality - A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys
It’s a prolonged and constant struggle for many women to take charge of their sexuality, and to enjoy the many benefits that sex and masturbation have to offer. In actuality, sexual health is not a luxury nor is it a taboo…it's an essential part of overall health and wellbeing.
And while generations of women have been taught that indulging in sexuality is wrong or immoral, it is actually sexual satisfaction that heavily contributes to a happy life outside of the bedroom.
Women have fallen victim to double standards for too long, and now is the time to close the orgasm gap, and to give women the tools and empowerment to take charge of their sexuality.
So if you’re new to the idea of incorporating self-love and pleasure into your daily life, and are overwhelmed, lost, or confused about sex toys, I’ve compiled a beginner’s guide to sex toys that’ll hopefully remove the stigma, shame or embarrassment. Women being confident and adamant about receiving pleasure is long overdue, and that’s just simply tragic.
Sex Toys for Beginners: Where to Begin?
Perhaps you think that all sex toys are large, phallic-shaped devices that are somewhat awkward to look at.
And while some people do prefer these kinds of toys, I’ve worked hard to create a line of non-intimidating, modest, and discreet sex toys that are perfect not only for beginners, but also those who seek to enhance their pleasure. Let’s dive in…
The clitoris is basically a woman’s pleasure centre. It plays no role in reproduction, and women have been blessed with this sweet spot simply for sexual satisfaction. You’ll find it right under the point where the inner labia meet, and while many still believe the clitoris is a pea-sized nub, it’s actually a much larger structure that’s root-shaped. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, which makes it a playground for sexual sensation and pleasure.
When the clitoris is stimulated, it has incredible potential for women to orgasm. In fact, the majority of women find it difficult or even impossible to climax by penetration alone. Do you want to get acquainted with your clitoris and the wonderful surges of pleasure it’s capable of producing?
Escape Clitoral Air-Pulsing
and Suction Stimulation Sex Toy
Escape is a beautifully-designed pleasure product for her that comes in a gorgeous violet colour. It works as a kind of oral sex simulator, and uses a suction and air pulses to stimulate the clitoris at a speed and pattern which feels comfortable for you.
What’s also fun about the Escape is that it doubles up as an internal toy too, with its ribbed and vibrating shaft. Exploring your body has never been so tantalizing, that’s for sure.
Pause is a pink and gold cutie with various vibration modes. It has bendy clip-like sides which you can use to circle around your clitoris. Speed it up or slow it down, you’ll be able to take your pleasure into your own hands with this discrete and non-intimidating sex toy for beginners.
Pause is also great if you’re interested in trying the technique, edging. This is when you tease yourself (or your partner teases you) until near-climax, then move away from your pleasure zone or take a short break. In this way, you build up sexual tension and arousal to eventually produce an even stronger orgasm.
The look and feel of Power, a bullet-style clitoral stimulation sex toy, alone is enough to make you fall in lust with it. It’s a sweet-looking pastel pleasure product with silver trimming that’s made of supple medical-grade silicone. And it’s capabilities are even more impressive…
Power is a small yet powerful sex toy perfect for beginners that’s palm-sized, broad, modern and compact. It can be used around the inner labia or around the clitoral hood, giving you your best kind of vibrations. And because of its small size, it can be hidden or easily transported!
A rabbit-style vibrator is a sex toy that offers dual stimulation: vaginal and clitoral. It gets its name from the two protruding clitoral stimulators, resembling a rabbit’s ears. And while this kind of sex toy may seem intimidating, there are several designs that are sleek and actually quite pretty!
Start off slow with Play, a rabbit-style palm vibrator. This non-invasive sex toy is great for beginners, as it’s not too big and is easy on the eye. In fact, it fits perfectly in the palm of your hand, is a soft pink colour and is made with ultra silky silicone. That means that it can be easily hidden, and is almost unrecognisable as a sex toy.
While this pleasure product is called a rabbit-style vibrator, it does not offer dual stimulation like your typical rabbit. This luxurious number is made to focus on the clitoris and vulva, and has a flexible design so you can customise your pleasure.
Perfect for beginners, Control is a multi-use rabbit vibrator that comes in a delightful pastel turquoise colour constructed from soft, delicate medical-grade silicone.
It allows you to really explore various parts of your sensual body, as you can use it in a number of ways:
- Vaginal stimulation and clitoral stimulation: Experience the best of both worlds by inserting part of the toy into the vagina while using the ears to tickle and tease your clitoris.
- Clitoral stimulation: If you’re not such a fan of vaginal stimulation, you can simply use this pleasure product to sensually massage and stimulate your clitoris alone.
This sex toy has a pause option, allowing you to switch it off promptly for discretion. And because it is made for women, by women, it has excellent precision with the female anatomy in mind.
The G-spot is a magical little area around 5-8 cm inside the vagina on the anterior wall. Stimulating the G-spot can be so pleasurable for some women, it may induce even stronger orgasms than clitoral stimulation.
The G-spot can be stimulated when fingered or when using a G-spot sex toy in such a way that the “come hither” motion is used. You’ll know when you’ve found the G-spot when you feel tissue that’s a little thicker and slightly rigid or rough to the touch. Then, when stimulated, it becomes puffier and harder and gives you a sense of fullness.
This sleek pleasure product has multiple things in mind: your G-spot, your clitoris, and doing its very best work to get you to “O” town. It has a flexible shaft, comes in a soft purple colour, and is made of medical-grade silicone.
It’s shaped in such a way to reach all of your sweet spots and is one of the best sex toys for beginners who want to indulge in and achieve ultimate wellness. It’s great for solo use or with a partner and is versatile enough to try various different styles of self-love.
And with that, I encourage you to dip your toe into the wonderful world of sex toys. Why? Because masturbation, pleasure, sexual exploration and achieving orgasm is a necessity, not a taboo.
Sex toys assist women in becoming more in-tune with their bodies, increase their levels of wellness, help incorporate a routine of self-care and create feelings of happiness and satisfaction. And what could be so wrong with that?!